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Posted by Adam in Pleasure First

How Can Orgasms Be Enhanced?

Researchers have found that men are capable of experiencing extremely intense orgasms, which involve the entire body, as opposed to the “local” sensation of ejaculation on its own.

There are also indications that men are able to experience multiple orgasms, which may or may not occur at the same time as ejaculation.

There is a widespread agreement among medical sex researchers that “the harder your erection and the longer you have sex, the more powerful the orgasm you’re likely to have”. Thus, the key to enhancing the male orgasm is to delay its occurrence for as long as possible. In turn, this means that a man will have enhanced orgasms if he is able to learn to hold back from having an ejaculation. The side benefit of being able to do this is that delayed ejaculation helps to increase fulfillment for the man’s sexual partner, as well as for himself.

There are various proven techniques that can be used by men to help them delay the occurrence of ejaculation. For example, a man can do Kegel exercises, which are designed to strengthen “the pelvic muscles around the base of the penis” – the same muscles that are squeezed “to avoid urinating”. When these muscles are strengthened, the man’s ability to delay ejaculation is greatly increased. The “stop-start technique” is another useful method to delay ejaculation (see also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique). In this technique, which is used during sex, “a man is repeatedly brought to higher levels of arousal and then stimulation is stopped just before ejaculation begins“.

It has also been noted that ejaculation can be delayed through the voluntary control of movements during sex. After the man’s ejaculation has been delayed, there are still other tricks that can be used to enhance his orgasmic pleasure. For example, it has been noted that the man’s prostate gland is as sensitive as a woman’s “G-spot”. In the words of the sex expert, Barbara Keesling, “to stimulate the spot and prolong your orgasm, ask your partner to gently press the skin right behind and under your testicles (called the perineum) before you ejaculate”.

Read also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique).

DIFFICULTY = May take practice, Intermediate to Advanced
LUBRICATION = Yes

This technique is kind of like the motion of milking. The idea is to keep the motion going fast enough as to always have the testicles and/or foreskin all the way up and both hands full all the time. Although, you can go slower for an alternative.

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LUBRICATION = Yes, Required
DIFFICULTY = Takes Practice

This will be a little different because the concentration of motion is on the base of the penis rather than the top. You will need to grip the head of the penis with one hand while stroking the bottom of the shaft with the other hand. As you pull down on the testicles, you can feel the head of the penis move down a little bit in the other hand. When you get used to the motion on this technique, you can experiment with squeezing or turning the hand you’re using to hold the head.

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LUBRICATION = Required
DIFFICULTY = Advanced

This method is an advanced masturbation technique because it requires some preparation and practice before it can be perfected.

(1) Find a plastic bag, sandwich bag, or plastic wrap.
(2) Insert the bag between the couch cushions, making sure enough plastic is exposed to allow for pressure once penis is inserted.
(3) Form the bag into what would resemble a hole for the penis to be inserted.
(4) Apply a generous amount of lubrication on the penis.
(5) Also apply lubrication to the inside of the bag. Be careful not to get any lube on your couch material. You may need to experiment with different types of bags before you find one that is comfortable.

After preparing the sofa with a plastic bag liner:

(6) Insert the erect penis into the opening of the bag.
(7) Thrust your hips and body in and out of the sofa. Thrust the shaft of the penis in as far as it will go and then back out.
(8) Use your hands to push down on the sofa cushions to increase the pressure on the bag to make the hole tighter (if desired).

Tip1: While your hands are on the sofa cushions, you may wish to also hold the top of the bag in place with your hands (not shown in our pictures). This will prevent the bag from going all the way into the cushions.

Tip2: You could also try it using a Fleshlight between the couch cushions instead of the plastic bag preparation (Highly Recomended)

Technique and animation Courtesy of Advanced Masturbation

LUBRICATION= Yes, Required
DIFFICULTY= Takes Practice, Advanced

This technique makes good use of the pelvis. If you get it right, you will feel like you are having sex while your partner is on top. You may feel a little teased by this method as it might take a long time to ejaculate, but the explosion is worth it. The type of chair you sit on will change the experience. An office chair that can lean backwards or a rocking chair enables a full body thrusting orgasmic motion.

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DIFFICULTY= Takes practice
LUBRICATION= Probably

In this technique, you gently balance yourself on an object like a small poll or broomstick. During ejaculation, there is an interesting sensation as the anus grips around the object all by itself. You can also lubricate the object and slide back and forth on it.

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LUBRICATION = Required
DIFFICULTY = Intermediate

This method is an intermediate technique, but does require some advanced patience (or past experience) for adjustments with lubrication and positioning.

This masturbation technique allows you to provide maximum stimulation to the penis head. First, you will have to find the most comfortable position for this masturbation technique by leaning back in a chair or propping yourself up on a bed.

Next, lubricate the thumb, forefinger, lower part of the stomach, the upper area of pubic hair, and the head of the penis.

Jerk the penis back and forth along the belly and pubic area while tugging on the head of the penis (if desired).

Tip: As seen in the picture, you can position a shirt or other fabric so that it rubs against the tip of the penis when you reach the maximum upward jerking off distance. This can provide a unique stimulation to the tip of the penis (if desired).

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LUBRICATION= Required
DIFFICULTY= Advanced

NOTE: Techniques Backhand Pelvic Thrust Masturbation Method, Hands-free Pelvic Grind Masturbation Technique, and this one are very similar. All three should be viewed before deciding on how to personalize these methods for your own preference.

This male masturbation technique will take some time to practice, but the technique offers wide variety in sensation from slight changes in the position of the hand.

(1) For the technique in the picture to the left, be sure to use plenty of lubrication on the penis, the hand, and the underside of the wrist.

(2) Grip the penis with the Backhand Technique

(3) Lay face down on a bed and prop yourself up with the other arm. Some people get better leverage if they use their hand on the wall for support, while others just lean on their elbow or shoulder.

(4) Use the pelvis to thrust in and out of the hand so that the underside of the head of the penis (glans) rubs all the way up against the lubricated wrist.

NOTE: You can adjust your fingers and the position of your hand to feel like you are having vaginal sex or anal sex by tightening the grip.

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Hits the spot
By daak

I recently received something I had heard about for years, and ever since I’ve been dying to try it. There it was right in front of me, in a big silver plastic flashlight case, I screwed off the cover and POW! there was a perfectly sculpted pussy, with a delicate clit and clean lips. My first Fleshlight. Naturally I was eager to try it, so I speed read through the instructions(the instructions here are important, using it the wrong way can make your love affair short lived, they’re easily damaged by oil based lubes) and applied the proper water based lube, and being in a suitably excited condition, I went for penetration.
WOW.

This was an oddly familiar feeling, odd because I was all by myself. But I could swear the sensations pulsing through my manhood were just like getting fucked…getting fucked, not fucking. It was like a birthday fuck where it’s all about my woman climbing up on top of me and telling me to relax and just enjoy the ride.
But it was also a bit like getting an extremely awesome blowjob, where she (more…)

LUBRICATION = No
DIFFICULTY = Intermediate
This male masturbation technique will come totally natural to some guys, while other men will really have to make an effort to get it right.

(1) Find a comfortable pair of pants, pajamas, or boxer shorts. Some people like to do this technique naked, but it seems to work well with a soft loose fit fabric like fleece, sweatpants, polyester, silk boxers, or whatever feels most comfortable. Some men prefer to wear tight clothing, but most say it restricts the motion of this technique.

(2) The trick to this technique (which is can not be seen in the picture) is to place the penis in a diagonal position between the leg (thigh) and the pubic hair area.

(3) Lay face down on a bed and prop yourself up with your arms. Some people get better leverage if they use their hand on the wall for support, while others just lean their weight on their arm, elbow, or shoulder.

(4) Use the pelvis to grind and thrust so that the underside of the head of the penis (glans) rubs all the way up and down underneath the body.

NOTE: As a variation, you can point your penis straight up and use your arms to rock whole body back and forth (from head to toe).

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