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How Can Orgasms Be Enhanced?

Researchers have found that men are capable of experiencing extremely intense orgasms, which involve the entire body, as opposed to the “local” sensation of ejaculation on its own.

There are also indications that men are able to experience multiple orgasms, which may or may not occur at the same time as ejaculation.

There is a widespread agreement among medical sex researchers that “the harder your erection and the longer you have sex, the more powerful the orgasm you’re likely to have”. Thus, the key to enhancing the male orgasm is to delay its occurrence for as long as possible. In turn, this means that a man will have enhanced orgasms if he is able to learn to hold back from having an ejaculation. The side benefit of being able to do this is that delayed ejaculation helps to increase fulfillment for the man’s sexual partner, as well as for himself.

There are various proven techniques that can be used by men to help them delay the occurrence of ejaculation. For example, a man can do Kegel exercises, which are designed to strengthen “the pelvic muscles around the base of the penis” – the same muscles that are squeezed “to avoid urinating”. When these muscles are strengthened, the man’s ability to delay ejaculation is greatly increased. The “stop-start technique” is another useful method to delay ejaculation (see also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique). In this technique, which is used during sex, “a man is repeatedly brought to higher levels of arousal and then stimulation is stopped just before ejaculation begins“.

It has also been noted that ejaculation can be delayed through the voluntary control of movements during sex. After the man’s ejaculation has been delayed, there are still other tricks that can be used to enhance his orgasmic pleasure. For example, it has been noted that the man’s prostate gland is as sensitive as a woman’s “G-spot”. In the words of the sex expert, Barbara Keesling, “to stimulate the spot and prolong your orgasm, ask your partner to gently press the skin right behind and under your testicles (called the perineum) before you ejaculate”.

Read also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique).

LUBRICATION = Required
DIFFICULTY = Advanced

This method is an advanced masturbation technique because it requires some preparation and practice before it can be perfected.

(1) Find a plastic bag, sandwich bag, or plastic wrap.
(2) Insert the bag between the couch cushions, making sure enough plastic is exposed to allow for pressure once penis is inserted.
(3) Form the bag into what would resemble a hole for the penis to be inserted.
(4) Apply a generous amount of lubrication on the penis.
(5) Also apply lubrication to the inside of the bag. Be careful not to get any lube on your couch material. You may need to experiment with different types of bags before you find one that is comfortable.

After preparing the sofa with a plastic bag liner:

(6) Insert the erect penis into the opening of the bag.
(7) Thrust your hips and body in and out of the sofa. Thrust the shaft of the penis in as far as it will go and then back out.
(8) Use your hands to push down on the sofa cushions to increase the pressure on the bag to make the hole tighter (if desired).

Tip1: While your hands are on the sofa cushions, you may wish to also hold the top of the bag in place with your hands (not shown in our pictures). This will prevent the bag from going all the way into the cushions.

Tip2: You could also try it using a Fleshlight between the couch cushions instead of the plastic bag preparation (Highly Recomended)

Technique and animation Courtesy of Advanced Masturbation

The male orgasm is analogous to the summit of a mountain: In trying to climb up this summit, a man must exert himself physically and emotionally. He must maintain an erection; his prostate must function at 100% capacity; he must pump, sweat, endure tension, anxiety, and stress; and, in the end, he must lose a big portion of his nutrients, energy, and hormones. Immediately after reaching the summit, the man collapses and falls into a deep abyss of exhaustion and feelings of emptiness, depression, guilt, anger, or hunger.

The man will also suffer from dry eyes and mouth, headaches, frequent urination, weakness, and the loss of a huge portion of his youth. Once he ejaculates he will have difficulty producing another erection. So, according to an old saying, “a living lion is reduced in a matter of seconds to a dead dog.” After ejaculating, a man usually rolls over and falls asleep, leaving a woman in a limbo halfway to heaven and halfway to earth. By following his physical instincts only, a man may not be able to take the woman beyond level four of the nine levels of a complete orgasm. The woman, unsatisfied, becomes resentful, angry, and frustrated.

In Taoist theory, this is called an Ordinary Orgasm, and it is the type of orgasm usually described - even encouraged - in most sex manuals (and school dorms). From the Taoist viewpoint, all the work, suffering, and loss traded for half a second of pleasure is uneconomical, worthless, and unwise. Unfortunately, men cannot abstain from (more…)

Lesson #1
Be born flexible. I don’t have any science to back this up, but it seems to me that some of us are just born more flexible than is usual. I didn’t have to put any special effort into sucking my dick when I started; I leaned over and stuck it it in my mouth, and it was good. If this was something that any man could do, you wouldn’t be able to walk down the street without tripping over all of the guys sucking themselves off.

Lesson #2
Try it anyway! Even if you weren’t born with the flexi-spine there is no excuse for you not to at least give it a try. The desire to suck our own cocks is the one thing that ties men of all sexual orientations together: it is something we can bond with our brothers about and, if we would all just relax and let go of our inhibitions, it is a far healthier pursuit than building weapons, staging hostile takeovers, or being a politician. Do it because it’s fun; do it because it helps you to experience your body in new and interesting ways; and do it because every man should taste cum at least once in his life.

Lesson #3
Be careful! Sexual desire and sexual excitement have a way of over-riding our physical sense of pain, and our (more…)

Getting off while someone else is sleeping nearby is always a tricky prospect. How do you arouse yourself without arousing your roommate’s attention? Here are some tips for masturbating in close quarters. From CollegeSexAdvice

Assume the position

As soon as you turn out the lights and get under the covers, get yourself in a comfortable position. It should be part of settling into bed, instead of waiting to get in position when you are getting ready to masturbate. Loosen your clothing under the covers, pull up your shirt if you want to play with your nipples. Spread your legs and get your fingers on your clit. Get your vibrator out and between your legs. If you have another preferred way of masturbating, like rubbing on a pillow, get the pillow in place. If you like to jill off while lying face down, then turn over on your tummy. After you get comfy, wait a few minutes before you start rubbing.

Is your roommate asleep?

Obviously, the best time to masturbate is when your roommate is asleep, but how can you tell for sure? Snoring’s a good indicator. Guys often snore heavily, but with women it can be harder to know. Listen for a deep, even breathing pattern and the (more…)

Masturbating starts off so promising, just gets better, and finished with a fabulous climactic release. Women are lucky, they’re left with nothing but a smile on their face. But men have to deal with the messy reality of a load of jism to dispose of.

In this guide, we’ll explore how best to dispose of your ejaculatory aftermath. From the solid, time-tested methods to the more kinky possibilities, we’ll offer you the dos and don’ts.

* In a tissue
This is perhaps the easiest and most convenient way to get rid of your spooge. Keep a box of tissues near the bed or where ever you wank, and just grab one a little before the moment of truth arrives - or grab two, if you’re a high volume shooter. Just be sure you throw the used tissue out immediately; you don’t want to pick it up later and mistakenly blow your nose in it, or have a guest stumble on it by accident.

Beware though, all brands of tisue aren’t the same. A scratchy tissue can take the shine off your afterglow. Experiment with different types to find one that feels good.

* In a wet washcloth
Cumming into a warm, wet washcloth can be a pleasure in itself, and is definitely a step up from Kleenex. Use fabric softener in the (more…)

How To Masturbation for Men

Masturbation is considered by many to be the cornerstone of sexual health. Most men believe that they already know everything about their own genitals and sexual response. It’s all out there, boys will be boys, etc. But just because you know how your tools work, doesn’t mean you can build the Eiffel Tower. In fact most men experience a fraction of their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Read on for tips on masturbation techniques that can help you explore all your body has to offer.

Difficulty: N/A

Time Required: Male masturbation doesn’t have to always be a “quick affair”. Take your time and enjoy.

Here’s How:

1. Make time for more than a quickie.
Most guys first learn to masturbate in secret and furtive ways. They do it quickly and need to figure out what to do with the evidence afterward. This can create a powerful pattern of masturbating quickly, without paying attention to where your sexual arousal can take you. To start exploring something different, make sure you have some extended time and privacy for yourself, where you aren’t trying to finish quick before someone interrupts.

2. Turn off the porn (just for a while) and tune into your body.
Not everyone likes porn, but a lot of guys do, and while porn can be great, it also takes you out of your body a bit with the fantasy. This can distract you from what’s actually (more…)

Nutrition plays a great role in determining both the content and volume of your ejaculate. Naturally, a balanced diet is essential for good sexual health, but the vitamins, minerals and supplements listed below can have a dramatic effect on the volume of ejaculate your body produces.

The supplement L-Arginine is an amino acid the body uses for a variety of important chemical and cellular processes. . .it is also believed to help you produce more volume of ejaculate. 500mg daily and (this is important…) 1,000mg 30-40 minutes prior to sexual activity. Like all natural supplements, you must be patient and allow your body’s “storehouse” to build-up. This period takes anywhere from 2-4 weeks depending upon the individuals baseline health and metabolic rate.

Zinc - One of the nutrients most critical for prostate health. The prostate needs 10 times more zinc than any other organ in the body. It is vital for preventing prostate problems. Unfortunately, 90% of men consume diets deficient in Zinc because most of our food is processed. Irving Bush and Associates at Chicago’s Cook County Hospital tested the effectiveness of Zinc supplementation on men with prostate problems. All patients reported symptomatic improvement while almost 80% had palpable shrinkage of the prostate gland. RDA is 15 mg…we recommend 45 mg per day.

Lycopene - is a natural anti-oxident that is prevalent in tomatoes. Recent studies show it to have roughly twice (more…)

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The Tantric Devotional Practice of Masturbation

Why do it?
So what is “tantric masturbation” all about? What’s the big deal? Isn’t cuming the whole point of having hardons? Cuming with as much volume and as much intensity and as often as possible?

Ignoring those blinded by contemporary culture to think that cocks and clits are only for making babies - no more than the regretably necessary evil of “procreation” according to the “Ancient Christian Holy Fathers”, even most gaymen, like our fellow citizens in general, are often rather dismissive of “MASTURBATION” as being no more than a poor substitute for the real thing, as something “LOSERS” do, etc., etc.

And then to NOT EVEN CUM?
What’s the point of that?
The answer to these questions, to these attitudes which have been so thoroughly, yet stealthily - unconsciously through the language with which we think - taught to those of us (see Tom Laqueur’s EXCELLENT new book, “Solitary Sex - A Cultural History of Masturbation” [2003 New York: Zone Books]) who are infected by Western culture (which, somewhat regretably includes many in Asia to some degree) can only be gotten experientially: one has to DO IT to see why one wants to do it. A bit of a catch-22. But I can say what I find its virtues to be: (more…)