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Best self-induced orgasms ever
by V+WW

I can give myself a good orgasm with my hand, but I really like the way a vagina feels and have long been interested in recreating the sensation of a vagina when I masturbate. I first tried out an artificial vagina in 1998 – I picked up a Doc Johnson (I think) “Kobe Tai” Vagina. Its was quite expensive (close to $100) and while I had fun with it, the orgasms I had with it weren’t that much better than with my hand, and positioning the thing was a challenge (basically, its a big heavy square of rubber). Once you get past the exterior pussy lips, the interior sensation isn’t very vagina-like.

When I first heard about the Fleshlight (which running was running some frankly crude advertisements on a bunch of the adult sites I frequented), I thought it was just another cheesy fake vagina. When I started hearing good reviews of it from serious sex educators, like Susie Bright and Blowfish, I though I’d give it a try.

I picked up the Vagina Wonder Wave. As luck would have it, the day it arrived, I had just joined one of the best porn sites I’d ever come across (ATKPremium), which was chock-full of my favorite visual stimulation – high-rez half-hour plus videos of gorgeous Euro girls having lesbian sex. I knew I was in for a fun evening. (more…)

Posted by Adam in Pleasure First

How Can Orgasms Be Enhanced?

Researchers have found that men are capable of experiencing extremely intense orgasms, which involve the entire body, as opposed to the “local” sensation of ejaculation on its own.

There are also indications that men are able to experience multiple orgasms, which may or may not occur at the same time as ejaculation.

There is a widespread agreement among medical sex researchers that “the harder your erection and the longer you have sex, the more powerful the orgasm you’re likely to have”. Thus, the key to enhancing the male orgasm is to delay its occurrence for as long as possible. In turn, this means that a man will have enhanced orgasms if he is able to learn to hold back from having an ejaculation. The side benefit of being able to do this is that delayed ejaculation helps to increase fulfillment for the man’s sexual partner, as well as for himself.

There are various proven techniques that can be used by men to help them delay the occurrence of ejaculation. For example, a man can do Kegel exercises, which are designed to strengthen “the pelvic muscles around the base of the penis” – the same muscles that are squeezed “to avoid urinating”. When these muscles are strengthened, the man’s ability to delay ejaculation is greatly increased. The “stop-start technique” is another useful method to delay ejaculation (see also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique). In this technique, which is used during sex, “a man is repeatedly brought to higher levels of arousal and then stimulation is stopped just before ejaculation begins“.

It has also been noted that ejaculation can be delayed through the voluntary control of movements during sex. After the man’s ejaculation has been delayed, there are still other tricks that can be used to enhance his orgasmic pleasure. For example, it has been noted that the man’s prostate gland is as sensitive as a woman’s “G-spot”. In the words of the sex expert, Barbara Keesling, “to stimulate the spot and prolong your orgasm, ask your partner to gently press the skin right behind and under your testicles (called the perineum) before you ejaculate”.

Read also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique).

Satisfaction…. Guaranteed!
by eze

Hello, my name is Travis. I’m 19 years old. I live in Southern California. And I am satisfied Fleshlight customer. I am one of the sufferers of “Death Grip” and I few Fleshlight is helping me get exactly where I want.

After having sex with 3 different women. And having fun with my life, I found a problem. I was not cumming with them. At first, I thought it wasn’t me, it was the girls. They weren’t tight enough or something. But after having sex with the 3rd girl, I was sort of worried if that would effect me later in life. Although girls liked to last long. I had seen myself lasting an hour or so straight without cumming and finishing myself jacking off.

I started doing research to see if something was wrong with me or something I was doing and how it might effect me. After seeing some people say masturbating too much was the possible cause. I immediately thought of trying to have kids.. and what I would do. And then I just happened to read a mans girlfriend broke up with him because he couldn’t cum and she was so turned off by it. She broke up with him.

That got me worried, and I never really looked into fake pussies. One their way to fake looking and I couldn’t find reviews and they were very expensive, way past how much I make.

Then one day after looking at porn, I stumbled across a picture link of a Fleshlight, at first, I was like, “Oh just another wannabe sex toy for men”. I didn’t even think to look at it. (Mind you this was when Fleshlight had come out only for a little bit) (more…)

DIFFICULTY = May take practice, Intermediate to Advanced
LUBRICATION = Yes

This technique is kind of like the motion of milking. The idea is to keep the motion going fast enough as to always have the testicles and/or foreskin all the way up and both hands full all the time. Although, you can go slower for an alternative.

Check the animation below to help understand it better: (more…)

Greatest thing since Ice Cream
by 15K

In the 48 years since hitting puberty I have used at least a couple of dozen of toys, many of them homemade and concocted of items intended for other uses.

I have purchased motorized vibrators of different kinds and even supposedly more sophisticated toys costing the value of a half dozen 342 deals.

I thought I was losing it physically because of age, but my mind and appetite for please was not ready to pack it in. Part of the problem was the dreaded death grip and the mechanical grips of toys that do not understand what we really need. Pulsations too strong do not allow our little friends to respond to the biologic reactions that are natural in our sexual function. The need for speed in sex is the speed that kills sensation.

In the attempt to stem the law of diminishing returns, more aggressive steps were taken to achieve the most recent best pleasure result. As a consequence, the member takes an unintended beating in the sensory areas.

I had seen the Fleshlight add before and wondered how something so relatively inexpensive could be so effective as its advertisements claimed.

I needed to make a leap of faith and took 4 models the STU, the WW, the SB and the SR. (more…)

Tgif!
By AHoustonThang

Thank God It’s Fleshlight!

Oh yeah, and it’s Friday too.

Well, I’ve thought about this for a long time now (plus alot of lurking on here) and I finally purchased a Fleshlight on Christmas Eve. Lil somethinsomethin for myself. I’m somewhat single and live alone, so what the hell.

The wait thru Christmas seemed interminable. I never got a tracking number, so I emailed for one last night. A few hours later, I got a response and it said my Fleshlight was already delivered! Bah, I must have missed it. I prayed it was at my apartment leasing office.

Well, today, when I woke up bright and early, I realized that the office wouldn’t be open yet. I stared at the clock and went back to sleep. I woke up around noon (I had the day off from work) and realized that the office would be out to lunch. Dammit. I finally drag myself out of bed, showered and milled around. (more…)

Fleshlight I Love You
By edgyformula

Well I just got my first fleshlight the day after christmas right when I saw that Fedex truck pull up in my driveway it felt like Christmas has come for another day. I riped open the box looked in side an was amazed at how big it really was I never could of dreamed that the fleshlight was as big as it is. the first thing i did was take it out of its packaging went to the bathroom started running the hot water to get it hot let it feel up my sink then set the fleshlight inside to warm it self. From what I read I had to let it stay in the hot water for about 10-15 mins to get the desired heat to stay longer then a few mins. After I let it get warm enough for my licking I lubed up my dick an the orifice of my fleshlight like the instructions say, then I went at it for about 10 mins then I burst like I have never burst before it was one of the best feeling I have ever had besides real sex like the website says the fleshlight the hand an the real thing are totally different things an I have to agree with everyone that the fleshlight is 10 times better then my hand.

The Pros: Well I like to say that the pros are that it is way better then my hand.

The Cons: Well I have a lil more cons then pros but that really dosnt matter when one pro takes the cake. But one of my cons is that I always have to worry that my hideing spot for my Fleshlight will be seen another con is that I can only really use it while everyone is asleep that doesnt really bother me that much cause then I can watch my pornos with a lil bit of volume hehe these are all the cons I can think of.

My name is Edgyformula
I have a WW/lady
I plan on getting a UT/Butt an SB/Mouth

What I have used I will give the WW/lady a 10 out of 10.

Give the Fleshlight a try and tell us what you think!
You can buy your own from $59.95 at Fleslight official site, and receive it discreetly packaged at home.

Have you ever reached a point in your life where you feel stuck or bored? Is the status quo just not enough anymore? Thats where I was maybe a month or so ago. For the record, I am a happily married guy, but I noticed that things were getting a little stale. In an effort to put a little spice back into the relationship, I decided to buy a Fleshlight. My thinking was that my wife has her toys, why cant I have one too?
Long ago, I had stumbled upon a banner ad for the Fleshlight and I was intrigued. I clicked on it and check it out, but I didnt really consider buying one. The idea of sticking my junk into a plastic “flashlight” was strange at best, but I kept it in the back of my mind. One bored weekend while in the midst of trying to find something a little more exciting and different, I revisited the site. I looked at the entire ILF site and I have to say that I was very impressed. It was clear that they werent just looking to make a quick buck by selling some cheap latex rubber piece of crap. They had put in the time and the money to develop something totally different. After reading about the product, (more…)

First go… Amazed!
By SugarGlider

I am a single father who is approaching 30, and so I have had more than a few tries at different sex toys. Some were okay, but were alot better than using your hand. When I first stumbled upon this website a few months ago I was skeptical. I research the toys that I have bought in the past, and I was getting tired of the recent one I had bought from somewhere else. It never felt real enough. I try to get the most out of what I pay for, and the others never made good on their claims.

So, when I came to this site and saw what others were saying I read up on it. Went to other sites. Read reviews. I did my homework and from what I could gather from them all was that this was the ultimate in sex-toy technology.

Well, I got it today. I was highly anticipating this. I mean, afterall, if it did live up to the claims people were making then I would be alot more happier about it and get more enjoyment out of it. I have to say that nothing beats sinking in between the warm welcoming thighs of your lover, but this is pretty damn close.

I was amazed. The retaining of heat, the feel, the texture. It felt incredibly real. (more…)

The good, the bad and the ugly.
By eze

Got my Fleshlights the other day and had a problem. No lube. It’s stuck there till tommorow.

Im not great at reviews so forgive me if its not too good.

3 for 2 deal - All Lady, Speed Bump, x2 Wonderwaves. The 2nd wonderwave, is for my dad, my mom had a hysterectomy and my parents and I are pretty open with things like this. No incest lol or anything were just open and my parents are very funny. I bought my mom a Mister Limpy just to make her laugh.
ANYWAY - My mom is hurting from the surgery still so, I bought it for my dad.

So lets kick start this.

The good - The realism, the feeling, just overall the material great. Package was distinct came in 2 days. Just great. (I’ve masterbated by hand for the last 5 and half years) (I’m 19 and half BTW) (And I didn’t lose my virginity until last year, [just choose to wait’] - and No I’ve never came from head or sex yet) And I came both times in the SB and WW- Overall, the package, the feeling, everything just great. A+, 10 points. Whatever Haha. (more…)