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Best self-induced orgasms ever
by V+WW

I can give myself a good orgasm with my hand, but I really like the way a vagina feels and have long been interested in recreating the sensation of a vagina when I masturbate. I first tried out an artificial vagina in 1998 – I picked up a Doc Johnson (I think) “Kobe Tai” Vagina. Its was quite expensive (close to $100) and while I had fun with it, the orgasms I had with it weren’t that much better than with my hand, and positioning the thing was a challenge (basically, its a big heavy square of rubber). Once you get past the exterior pussy lips, the interior sensation isn’t very vagina-like.

When I first heard about the Fleshlight (which running was running some frankly crude advertisements on a bunch of the adult sites I frequented), I thought it was just another cheesy fake vagina. When I started hearing good reviews of it from serious sex educators, like Susie Bright and Blowfish, I though I’d give it a try.

I picked up the Vagina Wonder Wave. As luck would have it, the day it arrived, I had just joined one of the best porn sites I’d ever come across (ATKPremium), which was chock-full of my favorite visual stimulation – high-rez half-hour plus videos of gorgeous Euro girls having lesbian sex. I knew I was in for a fun evening.

I started downloading and watching videos while I warmed up the Fleshlight and the lube. The videos were wonderful and I did my usual thing with my hand as I watched them, but held back from any kind of climax. Finally, I had to break to set up the Fleshlight – this is always kind of a pain, because I have a hard time keeping my erection during the time it takes to do this. I dried everything off, put it together, lubed the inside, then rubbed some baby powder over the exterior (a trick I’d learned when I had the Doc Johnson).

I went back to the videos and quickly regained my hard-on. Now it was time to try the Fleshlight – I slid it over my cock and quickly got the suction to maximum. Wow - it really was a unique sensation – a bit more like a good blowjob than fucking a vagina, but really nice.

The combination of this sensation with watching these gorgeous girls lick each other’s pussies was definitely starting to have its desired effect and I felt myself rapidly approaching orgasm. I held back, knowing patience would definitely pay off. Also, the nice thing about hitting a good-size cache of high-quality porn is that you really want to hold back long enough to enjoy one movie after another.

I found that with the Fleshlight I could control the degree of sensation from a great deal to very little, though there was always at least some small level of stimulation. Each time a got close to orgasm after holding one back, it got more intense, until I was absolutely flying - I don’t think I’d ever been in such a state of prolonged intense pleasure. (The ATKP movies were especially good for this, since quite a few of them are long and with a lot of emphasis on teasing and prolonged buildup.) At some point I figured it was time to let go, and I co-ordinated my orgasm with that of one of the girls I was watching in the movie onscreen.

Orgasm was absolute heaven! Other than some particularly intense fucks I’ve had with some of my girlfriends, this was the most intense pleasure I’d ever felt.

Since then, I’ve been able to reproduce this effect a few times, but not always consistently. I find that on those occasions that I actually have a few hours to devote to porn watching and masturbation, I can really build up something intense. When I don’t have that large of a block of time, the orgasm I get with the Fleshlight is quite good, but not mind-blowing. I’ve tried different positions, too, slipping it between two pillows and humping it – quite nice, but still doesn’t quite reproduce the rear-entry vagina sensation I’m looking for in that case.

Erection strength is definitely an issue - the Fleshlight works best when I have a huge sensitive hard-on and don’t need much stimulation to feel intense pleasure – then I can easily manipulate the sensations in a wonderful way. On the other hand, if I’m turned on and capable of cumming, but just not that hard (which is happening more and more these days, now that I’m 40), the Fleshlight is too difficult to use and I have to go back to my hand.

Anyway, just thought I’d give a testimonial to this board, since for whatever reason I’ve been wanting to tell somebody about all this. Hopefully, I’ll learn a few tricks here that will give me more consistent “flying” experiences with the Fleshlight.

Cheers,
V+WW