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Best self-induced orgasms ever
by V+WW

I can give myself a good orgasm with my hand, but I really like the way a vagina feels and have long been interested in recreating the sensation of a vagina when I masturbate. I first tried out an artificial vagina in 1998 – I picked up a Doc Johnson (I think) “Kobe Tai” Vagina. Its was quite expensive (close to $100) and while I had fun with it, the orgasms I had with it weren’t that much better than with my hand, and positioning the thing was a challenge (basically, its a big heavy square of rubber). Once you get past the exterior pussy lips, the interior sensation isn’t very vagina-like.

When I first heard about the Fleshlight (which running was running some frankly crude advertisements on a bunch of the adult sites I frequented), I thought it was just another cheesy fake vagina. When I started hearing good reviews of it from serious sex educators, like Susie Bright and Blowfish, I though I’d give it a try.

I picked up the Vagina Wonder Wave. As luck would have it, the day it arrived, I had just joined one of the best porn sites I’d ever come across (ATKPremium), which was chock-full of my favorite visual stimulation – high-rez half-hour plus videos of gorgeous Euro girls having lesbian sex. I knew I was in for a fun evening. (more…)

Posted by Adam in Pleasure First

How Can Orgasms Be Enhanced?

Researchers have found that men are capable of experiencing extremely intense orgasms, which involve the entire body, as opposed to the “local” sensation of ejaculation on its own.

There are also indications that men are able to experience multiple orgasms, which may or may not occur at the same time as ejaculation.

There is a widespread agreement among medical sex researchers that “the harder your erection and the longer you have sex, the more powerful the orgasm you’re likely to have”. Thus, the key to enhancing the male orgasm is to delay its occurrence for as long as possible. In turn, this means that a man will have enhanced orgasms if he is able to learn to hold back from having an ejaculation. The side benefit of being able to do this is that delayed ejaculation helps to increase fulfillment for the man’s sexual partner, as well as for himself.

There are various proven techniques that can be used by men to help them delay the occurrence of ejaculation. For example, a man can do Kegel exercises, which are designed to strengthen “the pelvic muscles around the base of the penis” – the same muscles that are squeezed “to avoid urinating”. When these muscles are strengthened, the man’s ability to delay ejaculation is greatly increased. The “stop-start technique” is another useful method to delay ejaculation (see also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique). In this technique, which is used during sex, “a man is repeatedly brought to higher levels of arousal and then stimulation is stopped just before ejaculation begins“.

It has also been noted that ejaculation can be delayed through the voluntary control of movements during sex. After the man’s ejaculation has been delayed, there are still other tricks that can be used to enhance his orgasmic pleasure. For example, it has been noted that the man’s prostate gland is as sensitive as a woman’s “G-spot”. In the words of the sex expert, Barbara Keesling, “to stimulate the spot and prolong your orgasm, ask your partner to gently press the skin right behind and under your testicles (called the perineum) before you ejaculate”.

Read also Male Multiple Orgasm, “Edging” Masturbation Technique, Injaculation Vs. Ejaculation - The ‘Million-Dollar’ Point Technique).

Satisfaction…. Guaranteed!
by eze

Hello, my name is Travis. I’m 19 years old. I live in Southern California. And I am satisfied Fleshlight customer. I am one of the sufferers of “Death Grip” and I few Fleshlight is helping me get exactly where I want.

After having sex with 3 different women. And having fun with my life, I found a problem. I was not cumming with them. At first, I thought it wasn’t me, it was the girls. They weren’t tight enough or something. But after having sex with the 3rd girl, I was sort of worried if that would effect me later in life. Although girls liked to last long. I had seen myself lasting an hour or so straight without cumming and finishing myself jacking off.

I started doing research to see if something was wrong with me or something I was doing and how it might effect me. After seeing some people say masturbating too much was the possible cause. I immediately thought of trying to have kids.. and what I would do. And then I just happened to read a mans girlfriend broke up with him because he couldn’t cum and she was so turned off by it. She broke up with him.

That got me worried, and I never really looked into fake pussies. One their way to fake looking and I couldn’t find reviews and they were very expensive, way past how much I make.

Then one day after looking at porn, I stumbled across a picture link of a Fleshlight, at first, I was like, “Oh just another wannabe sex toy for men”. I didn’t even think to look at it. (Mind you this was when Fleshlight had come out only for a little bit) (more…)

DIFFICULTY = May take practice, Intermediate to Advanced
LUBRICATION = Yes

This technique is kind of like the motion of milking. The idea is to keep the motion going fast enough as to always have the testicles and/or foreskin all the way up and both hands full all the time. Although, you can go slower for an alternative.

Check the animation below to help understand it better: (more…)

Greatest thing since Ice Cream
by 15K

In the 48 years since hitting puberty I have used at least a couple of dozen of toys, many of them homemade and concocted of items intended for other uses.

I have purchased motorized vibrators of different kinds and even supposedly more sophisticated toys costing the value of a half dozen 342 deals.

I thought I was losing it physically because of age, but my mind and appetite for please was not ready to pack it in. Part of the problem was the dreaded death grip and the mechanical grips of toys that do not understand what we really need. Pulsations too strong do not allow our little friends to respond to the biologic reactions that are natural in our sexual function. The need for speed in sex is the speed that kills sensation.

In the attempt to stem the law of diminishing returns, more aggressive steps were taken to achieve the most recent best pleasure result. As a consequence, the member takes an unintended beating in the sensory areas.

I had seen the Fleshlight add before and wondered how something so relatively inexpensive could be so effective as its advertisements claimed.

I needed to make a leap of faith and took 4 models the STU, the WW, the SB and the SR. (more…)

Here is one of the hottests erotic stories I readed before.
Go get and lube your Fleshlight before start reading… and enjoy

‘A’ My Name is Alice
by Emmah © for Literotica.com

Imagine a big guy with a rubber mallet in your chest and he’s banging on a steel drum. That’s what it felt like the first time AJ touched me. I didn’t feel it with my first boyfriend and I sure didn’t feel it with my husband the first time. I was sitting at the kitchen table reading the paper. My son AJ was standing behind me. He kissed me on the neck and then reached into the top of my blouse and gently held my nipple between his fingers. He said “That’s the most beautiful thing I ever saw”, took his hand out and left without another word.

I was dumbfounded. It happened so fast and it was so surreal, I wondered if it really happened. It happened; my nipple still tingled.

Do you remember that rhyme you sang as you bounced the ball under your leg?
‘A’ my name is Alice and my husband’s name is Al.
We live in Acton and we sell apples.

In the game you went on to ‘B’; in my life I stopped at ‘A’. My name is Alice and my husband’s name is Andy and my son’s names are Andy jr. (AJ) and Alex and we take care of apartments. The ‘A’ thing just happened because my father who lives with us is named Alex and it made him happy to have my second son named after him.

AJ and Alex are so different; you would think they’re not only from different families but from different planets. Alex never says a word and always wants to be alone while AJ is warm, loving, handsome…this leads me to the difficulty. I love Alex but I’ve fallen in love with AJ. (more…)

LUBRICATION = Yes, Required
DIFFICULTY = Takes Practice

This will be a little different because the concentration of motion is on the base of the penis rather than the top. You will need to grip the head of the penis with one hand while stroking the bottom of the shaft with the other hand. As you pull down on the testicles, you can feel the head of the penis move down a little bit in the other hand. When you get used to the motion on this technique, you can experiment with squeezing or turning the hand you’re using to hold the head.

Check the animation below to help understand it better: (more…)

Tgif!
By AHoustonThang

Thank God It’s Fleshlight!

Oh yeah, and it’s Friday too.

Well, I’ve thought about this for a long time now (plus alot of lurking on here) and I finally purchased a Fleshlight on Christmas Eve. Lil somethinsomethin for myself. I’m somewhat single and live alone, so what the hell.

The wait thru Christmas seemed interminable. I never got a tracking number, so I emailed for one last night. A few hours later, I got a response and it said my Fleshlight was already delivered! Bah, I must have missed it. I prayed it was at my apartment leasing office.

Well, today, when I woke up bright and early, I realized that the office wouldn’t be open yet. I stared at the clock and went back to sleep. I woke up around noon (I had the day off from work) and realized that the office would be out to lunch. Dammit. I finally drag myself out of bed, showered and milled around. (more…)

LUBRICATION = Required
DIFFICULTY = Advanced

This method is an advanced masturbation technique because it requires some preparation and practice before it can be perfected.

(1) Find a plastic bag, sandwich bag, or plastic wrap.
(2) Insert the bag between the couch cushions, making sure enough plastic is exposed to allow for pressure once penis is inserted.
(3) Form the bag into what would resemble a hole for the penis to be inserted.
(4) Apply a generous amount of lubrication on the penis.
(5) Also apply lubrication to the inside of the bag. Be careful not to get any lube on your couch material. You may need to experiment with different types of bags before you find one that is comfortable.

After preparing the sofa with a plastic bag liner:

(6) Insert the erect penis into the opening of the bag.
(7) Thrust your hips and body in and out of the sofa. Thrust the shaft of the penis in as far as it will go and then back out.
(8) Use your hands to push down on the sofa cushions to increase the pressure on the bag to make the hole tighter (if desired).

Tip1: While your hands are on the sofa cushions, you may wish to also hold the top of the bag in place with your hands (not shown in our pictures). This will prevent the bag from going all the way into the cushions.

Tip2: You could also try it using a Fleshlight between the couch cushions instead of the plastic bag preparation (Highly Recomended)

Technique and animation Courtesy of Advanced Masturbation