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3 for 2 - first time
by MacPirate

Well, after getting so bored with masturbation it was almost a chore to get off, I decided I needed something different. I was kind of jealous my girlfriend was able to achieve amazing orgasms with a simple vibrating bullet, and I was stuck pumping away to very forgettable orgasms (when I wasn’t with her, that is).

So, I started looking around at male sex toys, and I came across the Fleshlight. I had seen it a long time ago, but at that time I had no way to order (no debit/credit card), and I was kind of unsure about it. I read around the site for probably 2 months before finally going ahead and ordering one. Well, orignally I was going to just get a Lady WonderWave, but once I stumbled across the 3 for 2 deal (Buy 2 get 1 Free!), I realized it seemed almost stupid to not go that route. Since I was looking for realism, not just pure intense-ness, I got the following:

-Lady WonderWave
-Mouth Speed Bump
-Butt UltraTight

I figured those orifice/texture combos would be resemble vaginal, oral, and anal sex.

So, I finally ordered and waited about a week to get them…And I got them today.

I had read a lot about the whole desensitizing issue guys who have jerked off a lot seem to get, and I thought I had probably suffered from this a bit myself. I was wondering about it because even when my girlfriend gave me head the first time, it fealt amazing, but I couldn’t get myself to orgasm. It like wasn’t direct enough contact or something, I don’t know. But, anyway, I believe I do indeed suffer from this because of my experience so far, but I only know it will improve if I stop the jerking off and start the fleshlighting.

So, I went in this order - UT Butt, WW Lady, SB mouth. I figured that was the order of intensity from least to most, and I did it this way because I figured it would take more to get me off the second and third time.

So, enough talking, off to how it fealt.

UT Butt… At first I was concerned whether or not to order the UT. I’ve heard lots of complaints about just how tight the UT was, and I have a pretty sizable girth. Nothing beastly huge, but somewhere between 5.5″ and 6″ around. But, since I wanted to have an idea what anal was all about, I went for it. Guys who are worrying the UT is too tight - it isn’t. It may have been my first Fleshlight, but it really isn’t ridicously tight at all. The skin material used is very giving and flexible, and expands easily to fit your girth (within reason). I slipped in pretty easy with a little lube (I got some Wet Light with my order - good stuff!), and went to town. Even though this was the butt orificie, the wetness, smoothness, and texture instantly reminded me of oral sex (since I’ve never had anal or vaginal), which I consider a very good thing. It was a completely different feeling than jerking off. I had read about the end cap controlling suction, so I messed around with that. It fealt good to go at it with the capp all the way on, but when i wanted to pump hard and fast, then cap off was the best way. Overall I was impressed with the feeling I was getting out of the Fleshlight, but, in the end, my desensitizing in the past made the experience less than what it could have been. I went at it for at least 10 minutes before I came, going between fast and slow, and watching porn meanwhile. I suppose 10 minutes is somewhat average for intercourse, but I was used to much quicker orgasms via hand. Overall, I thought it was a nice insert. If you want to try something anal-like, go for the UT butt unless you’re ridiculously big in girth (like bigger than 6″ around).

Orgasm was good, not mind-shattering, but good. It was also one of the first times I actually struggled to regain my erection after ejaculation, which tells me it obviously took more out of me than a quick jerk-off.

Up next - WW lady. This is when I realized I definitely had some sensitivity issues - I could barely feel the ridges. It basically fealt at first like a slightly looser UT butt to me, it just fealt like a smooth insert. When I fingered it, the ridges were obvious, so I knew it was my cock, not the insert. Like last time, it probably took pretty close to 10 minutes with varying speeds. At one point, I let my cock lay parallel to my stomach and ran the lips of the opening up and down myself like a girl grinding on your cock…this fealt really good, as well. It’s also pretty hot to watch the lips flex around your shaft as it goes up and down…looks very realistic in action. I really like the flexibility of the insert because the outside is almost as useful as the inside…it feels almost as good to rub it against yourself than it does to fuck it. Eventually I came, this time a bit stronger than the last, but still not as strong as I’m sure they will get. overall, I liked the WW lady, as well.

Finally, the Speedbump mouth. The first two orgasms, being more strung out and draining than usual, tired me out pretty good, so I picked up this one after a break. I really love the lips on the mouth, it feels great to swirl them around your head, or slide them up and down your shaft. Finally, I started pumpkin into it… it was definitely a bit more intense than the WW, which I knew it would be. This one claimed my cum a lot faster than the others, and this time I probably came within 5 minutes, and I didn’t have to go as fast as the other times, either. I would definitely recommend this combo for realistic oral sex…I can personally say it was very similar, although a smooth insert would ALMOST be a bit more realistic.

Overall, I like the product. The inserts are really floppy feeling the first time you pick them up, I was almost afraid it was going to break or something…but once you handle it for awhile, you realize it won’t. The ability to heat it up really adds a nice effect, too, and the realism is probably unmatched for the most part among male sex toys. Personally, i just need to work on resensitizing my cock so I can make it easier on the girlfriend…I plan to stick with the SB mouth for awhile until I can easily cum inside it, then work to the lady, and finally the butt.

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